“Hey gurl! Everytime I see you, you always look so yummy.” My friend Sandi said while we were both looking at our reflections in the UP Faculty Center’s washroom.
“I know,” I jokingly replied while applying my favorite lip gloss.
Then she asked the forbidden question, “So, you have a Papa now?”
“ Nah, I don’t have one. Set me up with the men you know.” I was hoping she’ll say, Yeah, I know someone perfect for you.
But instead she said, “You look so intimidating kasi.”
End of story.
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I look intimidating, men wouldn’t date me..
I look intimidating because I’m yummy, men wouldn’t date me..
ALL TOGETHER NOW!
Eunice looks intimidating because she has great fashion sense, she looks so yummy, MEN WOULDN’T DATE HER.
I am a great catch, I know I’m intelligent, I look pretty ok, I’m the best you’ll ever have. I know YOU WOULDN’T DARE DATE ME..
Grrrrrrrrrr!
If I smell bad, and I’m really baduy and I’m totally dumb.. WOULD MEN start DATING ME?
Didn’t think so,, so what the hell am I supposed to do?
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I am freaking out, this world is really crazy..
Oooh, don’t look too good, you might scare men away. Oooh, don’t be too eloquent, you might scare men away.. Ooooh, why are you wearing that? It’s so last season, men don’t want baduy girls.. ooooh, don’t ever let these men know that you don’t know enough, they will take it against you.
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Aaaaaaaaargh, not a good day. NO MEN, NO DATE, NO HUMAN WARMTH.. Human warmth! I soooooooooo neeeeeed it….
just b humble... and don't build confidence from what you want others to think of you, it's ruining your "perfect girl - good catch girl" image... wait for other people to give you compliments and when they do... u accept it in silent gratitude and meekness...
ReplyDeletejust be simple, don't emphasize your qualities... ur overconfident attitude scares men away from u, kaya yan alang nalapit sayo..it's better if you got noticed unexpectedly than doing something and anticipating to be noticed...
loveyou jhers...